Relationships can be very complex. One day your together and the next day you're separated. You may feel empty inside from the break up but often the attempt of getting your ex girlfriend back can make that emptiness seem greater. If you really believe that you and her are meant to be there are steps you can take to win back an ex girlfriend who has left you.
The way you handle yourself in a break up is very important, because ultimately this will be the deciding factor of how permanent the situation is. You might feel like that you should get in contact with your ex immediately, but this is a mistake. It is important to use some alone time to clear your head and gather your thoughts. Do not beg for your ex girlfriend to take you back since it only makes you appear desperate and empowers her to keep you miserable.
When people get desperate they tend to constantly try to get into contact with their ex trying to get them back using stalking tactics. The strategy of stalking your ex girlfriend and telling her how much you miss her is only going to ruin all chances of a reunion. Remember that women are not attracted to desperation and they won't respond to it either. Give your ex some time to think and give yourself some time to get your emotions under control.
In order to win her back you need to get her attention without stalking her and make her feel again what it was that attracted her to you. Chances are that getting back together will not happen immediately and if the relationship is worth it then you need to be prepared to wait and give her some space.
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