Sunday, March 7, 2010

Relationship Break Up Advice - Don't Do This If You Want Your Ex Back

If you want you ex back you are going to need relationship break up advice on what to do and what not to do. Have you ever messed up the process of getting back with your ex just the costs you may a few silly mistakes? Well, fortunately for you, there are ways that you can actually prevent this from happening by simply knowing what you should not do when you are trying to get back together with your ex.



Don t Be Possessive/Clingy  

People sometimes have a hard time letting their ex s go, especially if they still are not willing to let go as of yet. If you want to avoid being too possessive and clingy to your ex, learn to let go of your ex, and let her do whatever it is that she wants to do. Keep in mind that both of you are not together now, no matter how you may perceive your relationship to be. Don't get uptight if you ever see her with other people, this is one way to push her even further away from you.. This can actually help get your ex to miss the time she had with you.

Don t Be Pushy
  
As much as you would want for things to work immediately between you and your ex, unfortunately, it doesn t work that way. Even though you have been patient and given your ex some space, this doesn't mean that she will ever come back to you. The point I am trying to make, is if you don't give your ex the time and space she needs you will never know if she misses you. If you are to push a and you try and force her to make a decision, she may resent this pressure and never come back.

Don t Be Desperate  

If you ever tried to beg her to come back, you will look desperate in her eyes, this is not the way to win her back. When you do this, you are only pushing your ex away, thereby limiting your chances of getting back together with her.

Don t Make Your Ex Jealous  

Although in most movies, making your ex jealous with a new lover or partner is the way to get your ex to get back together with you, in reality this rarely works. If you ever try it that trick, it would surely backfire as she would probably retaliate turning your breakup into a battle. In the long run, this will hurt you both instead of getting you back together.

Getting back together can be a smooth and easy process if you just know what to look for, and what not to do. Hopefully, after you have read this article, you should have an idea as to how to go about getting your ex back into your life.

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