Spice Up Your Relationship

One should make attempts to enliven things instead. This will augment your existing relationship and make you reap richer benefits. But how to accomplish this is the problem. You can consider these four foolproof solutions to add zing to your sex life.

Take part in some necking and petting to begin with.

Do you and your partner get right down to business? If you do, that may be a huge problem. Intimacy in a relationship is not just having sex. Sex should be the least important factor when you are thinking of building up a long term relationship. Remember that foreplay doesn't have to start in the bedroom. Indulge in romantic thoughts and pass them on to your mate to keep the fire burning all the time.

Relax.

Never be verbal. Sex should give you pleasure. Also change the venue from the bedroom all the time. The novelty of sex lies in its spontaneity and not in having extensive discussions about sex.

It will lead to a smoother sex life.

Couples can solve their sexual problems if they ensure each other's pleasure. Or else he/she has to be categorically told. Discussing about your sexual fantasies will enable your partner to realize what you desire during sex. Both of you will thus derive equal pleasure from sex.

Indulge in experiments in the bedroom.

To spice things up in the bedroom, indulge in experiments. Everyday you will find new options if you are willing to experiment in bed. This way you will derive not only extra pleasure but also fun and excitement. Sex toys, pornographic videos and switching roles are other variants to be used in the bedroom. Remember that experimenting in the bedroom is a good way to spice up your intimacy, but be sure to use your best judgment. It may be a wise decision to first discuss making changes with your partner, as you will not want to make him or her feel uncomfortable.

Rekindle The Love In Your Relationship

Being married to the same person for years can lack excitement so may be a reason why an extra-marital relationship is entered into. Here are some suggestions as to how you might rekindle the love within your marriage, make your partner long to be with you and strengthen your feelings for each other.

Draw a bright childlike image with a smiley sun and two stick figures holding hands. The drawing doesn't have to be perfect but try as much as you can to make it look nice and beautiful. Label the two figures with your two names. Address an envelope with your partner's office and mark it as "Urgent". Your partner will receive it in the middle of a hectic and demanding day.

Bring some chocolates, snacks and champagne. Relax and gaze at the stars as both of you enjoy the food.

Get a long stemmed rose and surprise your partner by delivering it when she is at home. "You mean the world to me" or a similar message could be attached.

Prepare a box in readiness for that special massage. Arrange the tissue paper in the box. Arrange the massage items on a table and write this message on the blank card "if you want a sensual massage call this number (your phone number)".

Take a walk together in the park to bring back childhood memories by trying out the swings in the play area.

Take two big water pistols along with you to the beach. Fill them with water, give one to your partner and have a big water fight.

Ask your partner if there was something she's always wanted as a child. Let this be her birthday gift.